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Definition: Kinky |
KinkyAdjective1. (used of sexual behavior) "kinky sex"; "perverted practices". 2. In small tight curls. 3. Informal terms; strikingly unconventional. Source: WordNet 1.7.1 Copyright © 2001 by Princeton University. All rights reserved. |
Date "kinky" was first used in popular English literature: sometime before 1869. (references) |
(From Wikipedia, the free Encyclopedia)
Paraphilias are sexual desires or activities that lie outside the cultural norm, and under some conditions are considered mental disorders. The term was defined in its current use by the sexologist John Money.
Overview
Paraphilias are sometimes called sexual perversions or sexual deviations. Somewhat less judgmentally, and more colloquially, they are grouped together under the term "kinky sex." What is considered to be "perversion" or "deviation" varies from society to society. Some paraphilias have been and/or currently are crimes in some jurisdictions. Others are viewed as harmless eccentricities by many people.Some paraphilias are defined as potential mental disorders in the DSM-IV. These are:
Professional treatment is usually indicated only when such conditions lead to involvement of non-consenting sexual partners, or are clearly damaging to the physical or mental well-being of the paraphiliac.
- exhibitionism: deriving sexual pleasure from being watched
- fetishism: sexual attraction to particular objects
- frotteurism: deriving sexual pleasure from rubbing against other people
- masochism: deriving sexual pleasure from sexual submission
- pedophilia: sexual attraction to children
- sadism: deriving sexual pleasure from inflicting pain
- voyeurism: deriving sexual pleasure from watching others
Although homosexuality was once considered to be a paraphilia, it is not usually regarded as such any longer. Similarly, consensual sadomasochism, exhibitionism, voyeurism and non-psychotic forms of fetishism, urolagnia and even coprophilia are increasingly becoming culturally acceptable forms of sexuality. The fluidity and arbitrariness of such characterizations may be due to the fact that it is often very difficult to understand why some humans are predominantly aroused by certain stimuli that apparently leave the majority of the population unaffected.
Observation of paraphiliac behavior has provided valuable scientific information on the mechanisms of sexual attraction and desire, such as behavioral imprinting. Careful investigation has also led to the tentative conclusion that normal biological processes may sometimes be manifested in idiosyncratic ways in at least some of the paraphilias. For instance, for one to become sexually aroused on account of consuming human feces may appear bizarre, revolting, unnatural, inconceivable, and inexplicable to many. Consider, however, that in many animal species one or both parents will consume the feces of their infants in the process of keeping them clean. The taste for the feces of their infants must be "hard-wired" into them. They must experience it as a desirable, pleasant activity. And, most importantly, this devoted care of infants is closely associated with love -- which in turn is closely associated with erotic arousal.
All of these factors, care, love, and the sexual impulse, are thus thought to be hard-wired and also to be so closely related to each other in the neurophysiology of the individual that it may be impossible to strongly activate any one of them without causing some activation of the other two. This association is manifested in a much more commonly experienced way, in the tendency of lovers to treat each other as infants and to want to care for each other. "Baby, I want to do everything for you." Finding that seemingly unfathomable behavior actually has its roots in drives or motivations shared by most or all people makes the strange behavior much less threatening. It also makes it possible to begin thinking of ways in which learning disruptive patterns of sexual interaction may be avoided or at least minimized. (See John Money, The Lovemap Guidebook, chapter 7, and especially pp. 170 ff. Continuum, 1999)
Non-consensual and criminal paraphilias
The paraphilias listed below are either non-consensual or, if acted out, criminal in nature.
- biastophilia: sexual pleasure from committing rape
- lust murder: sexual arousal through committing murder
- necrozoophilia: sexual attraction to the corpses or killings of animals, or necrobestiality
- necrophilia: sexual attraction to corpses
- pedophilia: sexual attraction to pre-pubescents
- frotteurism: sexual arousal through rubbing one's self against a non-consenting stranger in public
- telephone scatologia: being sexually aroused by making obscene telephone calls
- zoophilia: sexual attraction to animals, or bestiality
Common paraphilias
The following paraphilias are sufficiently common in the general population to be frequently observed in clinical literature, as well as being able to support entire sub-genres of mainstream commercial pornography.
Note that non-consensual sadomasochistic acts may consititute assault, and therefore belong in the list above. Some jurisdictions criminalize sadomasochistic acts, regardless of consent.
- algolagnia: sexual pleasure from pain
- exhibitionism: sexual arousal through displaying genitals in public
- fetishism: sexual attraction to a physical object, with common examples being
- fur fetishism
- leather fetishism
- panty fetishism
- rubber fetishism
- shoe fetishism
- spandex fetishism
- sadomasochism: taking sexual pleasure in inflicting pain, or having pain inflicted upon one's self. (See also "bondage and discipline" and algolagnia)
- urolagnia: sexual attraction to urine
- voyeurism: sexual arousal through watching others having sex
Non-consensual exhibitionism in public places, where people who have not previously consented to watch are exposed to sexual display, is also an offence in most jurisdictions. (See indecent exposure).
Note: Wikipedia does not give legal advice.
Other paraphilias
The paraphlias listed below are less common.
There are also many other rare paraphlias.
- acrotomophilia: sexual attraction to amputees
- coprophilia: sexual attraction to feces
- dendrophilia: sexual arousal from trees
- emetophilia: sexual attraction to vomit
- ephebophilia: sexual attraction to adolescents
- gerontophilia: sexual attraction to the aged
- hematolagnia: sexual attraction to blood
- hybristophilia: sexual arousal by people who have committed crimes, in particular cruel or outrageous crimes
- klismaphilia: sexual pleasure from enemas
- maiesiophilia: sexual attraction to childbirth or pregnant women
- mysophilia: sexual attraction to foul or decaying material
- pictophilia: inability to become sexually aroused except through the use of pictorial pornography
- plushophilia: sexual attraction to stuffed toys
- infantilism: sexual pleasure from dressing, acting, or being treated as a baby
- scotophilia: sexual attraction to darkness
- sitophilia: sexual arousal from food
- xylophilia: sexual attraction to wood
The supposed paraphilia of autogynephilia, or sexual pleasure from perceiving oneself as a woman, has been proposed as a motivation for transgender behavior, but is generally regarded as theoretical in nature. It is not well accepted.
See also
- Richard Freiherr von Krafft-Ebing for history
External links
- DSM-IV and DSM-IV-TR list of paraphilias
Source: adapted by the editor from Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia under a copyleft GNU Free Documentation License (GFDL) from the article "Paraphilia."
Synonyms: KinkySynonyms: crisp (adj), far-out (adj), frizzly (adj), frizzy (adj), nappy (adj), offbeat (adj), perverted (adj), quirky (adj), way-out (adj). (additional references) |
| Context | Synonyms within Context (source: adapted from Roget's Thesaurus). |
Caprice | Adjective: capricious; erratic, eccentric, fitful, hysterical; full of whims; Noun: maggoty; inconsistent, fanciful, fantastic, whimsical, crotchety, kinky, particular, humorsome, freakish, skittish, wanton, wayward; contrary; captious; arbitrary; unconformable; penny wise and pound foolish; fickle; (irresolute); frivolous, sleeveless, giddy, volatile. |
Convolution | Involved, intricate, complicated, perplexed; labyrinth, labyrinthic, labyrinthian, labyrinthine; peristaltic; daedalian; kinky, knotted. |
Curvature | Adjective: curved; Verb: curviform, curvilineal, curvilinear; devex, devious; recurved, recurvous; crump; bowed; Verb: vaulted, hooked; falciform, falcated; semicircular, crescentic; sinusoid, parabolic, paraboloid; luniform, lunular; semilunar, conchoidal; helical, double helical, spiral; kinky; cordiform, cordated; cardioid; heart shaped, bell shaped, boat shaped, crescent shaped, lens shaped, moon shaped, oar shaped, shield shaped, sickle shaped, tongue shaped, pear shaped, fig shaped; kidney-shaped, reniform; lentiform, lenticular; bow-legged; (distorted); oblique; circular. |
| Source: adapted from Roget's Thesaurus. | |
| Domain | Usage | |
Screenplays | Kinky! Sign here (Blazing Saddles; writing credit: Andrew Bergman; Mel Brooks) Kinky! Sign here (Blazing Saddles; writing credit: Andrew Bergman; Mel Brooks) | |
Tongue Twisters | Kinky kite kits. (references; author: unknown) | |
Movie/TV Titles | Kinky Les (1967) Kinky Couples (1980) House of Kinky Pleasures (1975) | |
Source: compiled by the editor from various references; see credits. | ||
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Theater & Movies | |
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| Thumbnail | Description & Credit | ![]() | Th' kinky, dandy, slinkin' slim. Credit: Library of Congress. |
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| "Kinky 1" by A. Carlos Herrera Commentary: "Kinky, my gorgeous calico cat :3." | "Design is kinky" by Peter Hamza Commentary: ";)." |
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| Play | Caption |
| Amative; amatory; amorous; aphrodisiac; bawdy; blue; carnal; concupiscent; dirty; earthy; erogenous; fervid; filthy; fleshly; hot; impassioned; kinky; lascivious; lecherous; lewd; obscene; off-color; purple; prurient; raunchy; raw; romantic; rousing; sala. | |
| Source: compiled by the editor from various references; see credits. | |
| Subject | Topic | Quote |
Health | The characteristic kinky hair is stubby, tangled, sparse, or steely and is easily broken. (references) | |
In a few cases of IP, extremely wooly or kinky hair and an immune system dysfunction may also appear. (references) | ||
Source: compiled by the editor from ICON Group International, Inc.; see credits. | ||
| "Kinky" is generally used as an adjective (general or positive) -- approximately 90.48% of the time. "Kinky" is used about 105 times out of a sample of 100 million words spoken or written in English. Its rank is based on over 700,000 words used in the English language. Some parts-of-speech are not covered due to the samples used by the British National Corpus. (note: percents less than one-hundredth of one percent have been omitted) |
| Parts of Speech | Percent | Usage per 100 Million Words | Rank in English |
| Adjective (general or positive) | 90.48% | 95 | 33,629 |
| Noun (proper) | 9.52% | 10 | 111,207 |
| Total | 100.00% | 105 | N/A |
Source: compiled by the editor from several corpora; see credits.
Expressions using "kinky": kinky hair ♦ kinky yarn ♦ Menkes Kinky Hair Syndrome. Additional references. | |
| Source: compiled by the editor from various references; see credits. |
| The following statistics estimate the number of searches per day across the major English-language search engines as identified by various trade publications. Hyperlinks lead to commercial use of the expression at Amazon.com. |
| Expression | Frequency per Day | Expression | Frequency per Day |
kinky | 1,511 | kinky sex position | 27 |
kinky sex | 571 | kinky sex idea | 27 |
kinky lingerie | 262 | free kinky sex story | 25 |
kinky card | 186 | kinky sluts | 24 |
kinky girl | 116 | kinky hair | 24 |
kinky twist | 94 | free kinky | 24 |
kinky teen | 92 | kinky fetish | 23 |
kinky wife | 87 | free kinky sex | 23 |
kinky lesbian | 76 | ultra kinky 68 | 23 |
kinky story | 63 | free kinky sex pic | 23 |
kinky woman | 61 | kinky party | 22 |
kinky mature | 61 | cross dresser kinky | 22 |
kinky sex story | 57 | free kinky story | 21 |
celine kinky | 51 | kinky underwear | 21 |
kinky friedman | 49 | kinky teen video | 21 |
kinky porn | 47 | kinky older woman | 21 |
kinky personals | 36 | kinky anal | 21 |
kinky chat | 35 | kinky sex toy | 20 |
kinky pic | 33 | card e kinky | 19 |
kinky mature sluts | 30 | kinky idea | 18 |
kinky bondage | 18 | ||
| Source: compiled by the editor from various references; see credits. | |||
| Language | Translations for "kinky"; alternative meanings/domain in parentheses. | |
Albanian | i përdredhur (convolute, crooked, tortile, twisted), i çuditshëm (bizarre, cranky, curious, dark, eccentric, electric, erratic, extraordinary, fanciful, fantastic, fantastical, frabjous, freak, freakish, funny, grotesque, odd, oddish, off beat, outlandish, peculiar, pixilated, puzzling, quaint, queer, quizzical, rummy, strange, surprising, uncanny, unco, unnatural, unusual, viewy, way out, weird, whimsical). (various references) | |
Bulgarian | смахнат (bughouse, crack-brained, cracked, cracky, dippy, mental, nutty, off one's rocker, potty, queer, soft, touched, up the pole, wacky, zany), ситно къдрав (fuzzy), хомосексуален (gay, homosexual), ексцентричен (bizarre, cranky, eccentric, lunatic, off beat, original, outrageous, outre, peculiar, pixilated, queer, singular, viewy), луд (bedlamite, bonkers, crazed, crazy, daft, demented, loco, lunatic, mad, madman, maniac, off one's nut, off one's rocker, out of one's mind, possessed, potty, scatty, screwy, wild), извратен (crooked, depraved, distorted, perverse, perverted, sick), извит (arched, bended, cranked, crooked, curly, curve, curved, falcate, falciform, flexous, hooked, incurved, meandering, round, tortile, tortuous, twisted). (various references) | |
Chinese | 淫 (excessive, lewd, obscene, wanton), 卷毛 (Curl). (various references) | |
Czech | výstředný, plný svérázných nápadù, excentrický. (various references) | |
Danish | filtret garn (kinky yarn). (various references) | |
Dutch | krinkelig garen (kinky yarn), drallerig garen (kinky yarn). (various references) | |
Farsi | فرفری (Curly), پیچ خورده (Swept, Wound), موی وزکرده , گره خورده . (various references) | |
Finnish | mennä sykkyrään (become kinky, get tangled, kink). (various references) | |
French | fil vrillé (kinky yarn). (various references) | |
German | verkorkst (ruined, screwed up, upset), pervers (gay, perverse, perversely, perverted, sick, warped). (various references) | |
Greek | πλήρησ κόμβων, εκκεντρισμόσ (eccentric), λοξόσ (askew, awry, cockeyed, crackpot, devious, oblique, rakish, sidelong, skew, slant, slanting, transverse, wry). (various references) | |
Hungarian | szeszélyes (be capricious, capricious, changeful, erratic, fanciful, fickle, fitful, freakish, have a little finger ache, have moods, maggoty, mercurial, moody, peevish, petulant, skittish, wanton, whimsical), perverz (perverse, wrong-headed), göndör (crinkly, crisp, crispy, curly, frizzed, frizzy, fuzzy, ringleted, ringlety), csomós (bunchy, gnarled, gnarly, knaggy, knotty, lumpy, nodular, nodulose, scraggy, snagged), bogaras (buggy, crazed, crazy, dorky, eccentric, fanciful, have a little finger ache, maggoty). (various references) | |
Indonesian | keriting (crimp, curl, mucky). (various references) | |
Italian | ingarbugliato (knotty, matted, tangled), eccentrico (aberrational, eccentric, erratic, nutty, queer, way out). (various references) | |
Japanese Kanji | 癖毛 (kinky or curly hair), 縮れ毛 (curly or kinky or frizzy hair), キロ連量 (10^9, gear, gear change, gearshift, giga-, gigaton, guitar, January 15., king, King Dome, King Holiday, king salmon, kingmaker, King's English, king-size, kinky boots, kinky look, Kiwanis Club, ream weight, weight of 1000 sheets of paper). (various references) | |
Japanese Katakana | くせげ (kinky or curly hair), キンキーブーツ (kinky boots), キンキールック (kinky look), ちぢれげ (curly or kinky or frizzy hair). (various references) | |
Korean | 비꼬인. (various references) | |
Pig Latin | inkykay.(various references) | |
Portuguese | retorcido (twisted, winding, wry), excêntrico (barmy, bizarre, cam, capricious, cranky, crotcheteer, crotchety, eccentric, eccentrical, erratic, lunatic, madcap, odd, oddball, peculiar, potty, quaint, queer, quizzical, strange, suburban, tappet, wacky, weird, whimsical, wiper, wobbler), estranho (alien, awkward, curious, eerie, eery, extraneous, foreign, mysterious, novel, odd, outlandish, outsider, peculiar, quaint, queer, rum, strange, unaccountable, uncanny, unco, unfamiliar, unknown, way-out, weird), enroscado, bizarro (antic, bizarre, freakish, odd, quaint, weird, whimsical). (various references) | |
Romanian | creţ (crease, Crimp, crisp, curly, curly haired, frizzy, pleated, ridge, wrinkle), ciudat (cranky, curious, droll, eccentric, extraordinary, extravagant, fanciful, fancy, freakish, funny, intriguing, odd, out of the way, outlandish, particular, peculiar, peculiarly, quaint, queer, rum, rummy, singular, strange, strangely, uncouth, unusual, weird, whimsical), cârlionţat (crimped, curled, frizzled, waved). (various references) | |
Russian | странный (bizarre, curious, exotic, freakish, freaky, funny, left-field, odd, oddish, off-the wall, peculiar, phoney, queer, rummy, strange, unaccountable, unco, vagarious, weird), курчавый (crimpy, ringleted, ringlety). (various references) | |
Serbo-Croatian | kovrdžav (curly, frizzed, frizzly, frizzy, ringleted, ringlety), nastran (crotchety, cussed, extravagant, oddish, queer, screwy, wrongheaded). (various references) | |
Spanish | torcido (askew, awry, bent, crooked, distorted, furious, strained, turned, wry), rizado (crimped, crisp, curling, curly, frizzed, frizzly, frizzy), retorcido (convolute, gnarled, twisted), peculiar (particular, peculiar, quirky), extraño (alien, bizarre, dago, droll, eerie, extraneous, foreign, odd, oddish, out of the way, peculiar, quaint, queer, quizzical, rum, rummy, singular, strange, stranger, uncommon, weird), excéntrico (crackpot, eccentric, eccentrical, nut, oddball, oddbod, offbeat, original, screwball), ensortijado (curly, in ringlets), enroscado (angry, coiled), de gustos sexuales pervertidos, arrugado (creased, lined, seamy, shrivelled, wizened, wrinkled). (various references) | |
Swedish | krullig (crisp, curly, frizzly, frizzy), excentrisk (cranky, eccentric, erratic, far out, far-out, off-centre). (various references) | |
Turkish | karışık (adulterated, blended, calico, chequered, combined, complicated, composite, compound, confused, deep, disconcerted, disordered, disorderly, disorganized, hugger mugger, huggermugger, hybrid, inexplicit, inextricable, intricate, involute, involved, knotted, knotty, mazy, medley, miscellaneous, mixed, motley, obscure, out of square, promiscuous, turbid, unclassified, unsized, woolly, wooly), sapıkça, müstehcen (bawdy, blue, dirty, filthy, gross, hard core, loathsome, nasty, obscene, off color, off colour, pornographic, racy, raw, ribald, ripe, risky, risque, rough, salacious, shocking, smutty, suggestive, unprintable), garip (awkward, bizarre, codger, comical, cranky, crotchety, curious, droll, eccentric, exotic, fanciful, fancy, fantastic, fantastical, far out, freak, freakish, funny, funny peculiar, grotesque, odd, out of the way, outlandish, poor, queer, quizzical, rum, rummy, screwball, screwy, strange, weirdo, whimsical), dolaşık (circuitous, entangled, entwined, foul, mazy, tortuous), acayip (antic, bizarre, bughouse, comical, comically, crotchety, curious, droll, exotic, fanciful, fantastic, fantastical, flaky, freak, freakish, grotesque, incongruous, kooky, novel, odd, out of the way, outlandish, peculiar, quaint, queer, quirky, quizzical, rum, rummy, screwball, singular, some, splendiferous, strange, uncanny, unco, unusual, weird). (various references) | |
Ukrainian | кучерявий (crimpy, curling, curly, frizzly, frizzy, fuzzy, waved, wavy). (various references) | |
Vietnamese | quăn (crispate, crispy, curling, curly). (various references) | |
| Source: compiled by the editor from various translation references. | ||
Misspellings | |
"Kinky" is suggested in spellcheckers for the following: Akinci, hinky, Ikkyu, jinky, Kanaky, kicky, kiki, kikni, kinch, kincky, Kincl, kindy, kingy, kinko, Kinny, kinry, Kinsy, kiny, Kliskey, knify, konk, kunky, minky, Ninky, oinky, rinky, skanky, tinky. (additional references) | |
| Source: compiled by the editor, based on several corpora (additional references). | |
| # of Phoneme Matches | Pronunciation | Word(s) rhyming with "kinky" (pronounced ki"ngkē) |
| 4 | -i" ng k ē | dinky, inky, Pinkie, pinky, slinky, stinky. |
| 3 | -ng k ē | chunky, clunky, cranky, junkie, junky, lanky, donkey, funky, hanky, honky, hunky, monkey, punky, spunky, swanky. |
Source: compiled by the editor (additional references); see credits. | ||
Scrabble® Enable2K-Verified Anagrams | |
| Words within the letters "i-k-k-n-y" | |
-1 letter: inky, kink. | |
-2 letters: ink, kin, yin. | |
-3 letters: in. | |
| Words containing the letters "i-k-k-n-y" | |
+2 letters: kinkily, yakking, yukking. | |
+3 letters: kayaking, kolinsky. | |
+4 letters: kayakings. | |
+5 letters: skyjacking, skylarking. | |
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