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Submissive

Definition: Submissive

Submissive

Adjective

1. Inclined or willing to submit to orders or wishes of others or showing such inclination; "submissive servants"; "a submissive reply"; "replacing troublemakers with more submissive people".

2. Willing to submit without resistance to authority; deferent.

3. Abjectly submissive; characteristic of a slave or servant; "slavish devotion to her job ruled her life"; "a slavish yes-man to the party bosses"- S.H.Adams; "she has become submissive and subservient".

Source: WordNet 1.7.1 Copyright © 2001 by Princeton University. All rights reserved.
 

Date "submissive" was first used in popular English literature: sometime before 1010. (references)

 

Specialty Definition: Bottom (BDSM)

(From Wikipedia, the free Encyclopedia)

In BDSM, a bottom is a partner who takes the role of slave or victim, submitting to such acts as bondage, flogging, humiliation, or servitude from the top.

A bottom is not necessarily submissive, and vice versa. At one end of the continuum is a submissive who enjoys taking orders from a dominant but does not receive any physical stimulation. At the other is a bottom who enjoys the intense physical and psychological stimulation but does not submit to the person delivering them.

It should be noted that the bottom is most often the partner who is giving instructions - the top typically tops when, and in the manner, requested by the bottom.

In order to explore BDSM sex, it is essential to be careful and choose a top who will be responsive to one's needs, feelings, and limits. (See safeword.) Failure to choose a trustworthy top can be very dangerous, and even a trustworthy but overzealous top can inflict severe pain or injury by failing to pay attention to the bottom.

Note that in BDSM sex, it is commonplace for two partners to switch roles from one encounter to the other, depending on mood and preference, a practice known as switching.

The term submissive or sub is more precise than "bottom", since the term "bottom" is also used in vanilla, especially gay, sex to refer to a receptive partner, or as an intransitive verb meaning to have receptive sex with. As above, it is very commonplace for partners to change roles from one encounter to the next or to have both insertive and receptive sex.

Bottoms sometimes identify themselves by wearing a set of keys on the right side of the belt or a color-coded handkerchief in their right rear pocket. This practice, called flagging, began in the gay male subculture but appears to be dying out.

In Japanese bondage and sexually-themed anime and manga (especially yaoi), a bottom is referred to as uke, a term from kabuki.

Source: adapted by the editor from Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia under a copyleft GNU Free Documentation License (GFDL) from the article "Bottom (BDSM)."

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Synonyms: Submissive

Synonyms: slavish (adj), subservient (adj). (additional references)
Antonym: domineering (adj). (additional references)

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Synonyms within Context: Submissive

ContextSynonyms within Context (source: adapted from Roget's Thesaurus).

Excitability

Meek, tolerant; patient, patient as Job; submissive; tame; content, resigned, chastened, subdued, lamblike; gentle as a lamb; suaviter in modo; mild as mothers milk; soft as peppermint; armed with patience, bearing with, clement, long-suffering.

Facility

Manageable, wieldy; towardly, tractable; submissive; yielding, ductile; suant; pliant; (soft); glib, slippery; smooth; on friction wheels, on velvet.

Humility

Adjective: humble, lowly, meek; modest; humble minded, sober-minded; unoffended; submissive; servile,.

Obedience

Restrainable; resigned, passive; submissive; henpecked; pliant; (soft).

Submission

Adjective: surrendering; Verb: submissive, resigned, crouching; downtrodden; down on one's marrow bones; on one's bended knee; unresistant, unresisting, nonresisting; pliant; (soft); undefended.

Source: adapted from Roget's Thesaurus.

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Crosswords: Submissive

English words defined with "submissive": break, break incompliant, cringingDemiss, Demissive, docilitygroveling, grovellinginsubordinatemeek, meekly, meeknessNonsubmissiveobedience, obeisance, Obeisant, ObsequentPassive verbservile, slavish, spiritless, Submiss, Submissly, subordinate, subservient, Succumbentunservile, unsubmissive, uxoriouswormlike, wormy. (references)
Specialty definitions using "submissive": AfrietCell WarriorKing Stork. (references)

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Commercial Usage: Submissive

DomainTitle

Books

  • Dominant Women Submissive Men: An Exploration in Erotic Dominance and Submission (reference)

  • Female Bodies, Sport, Italian Fascism: Submissive Women and Strong Mothers (reference)

  • Superpower scholars : sensitive, submissive, or self-deceptive? (reference)

  • The Accidental Submissive (reference)

  • The Eros Comix Library #45: Submissive Suzanne, Volume 1 (reference)

    (more book examples)

Source: compiled by the editor from various references; see credits.

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Image Slideshow: Submissive

Photos:
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Use in Literature: Submissive

TitleAuthorQuote

Emma

Austen, Jane

Harriet kissed her hand in silent and submissive gratitude

Source: compiled by the editor from various references.

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Non-Fiction Usage: Submissive

SubjectTopicQuote

Worker Rights

Bulgaria

Some trafficking victims from countries to the east are kept in Bulgaria for several weeks where they are subjected to psychological and physical abuse to make them more submissive before they are shipped to their destination points. (references)

Source: compiled by the editor from ICON Group International, Inc.; see credits.

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Usage Frequency: Submissive

"Submissive" is generally used as an adjective (general or positive) -- approximately 99.30% of the time. "Submissive" is used about 143 times out of a sample of 100 million words spoken or written in English. Its rank is based on over 700,000 words used in the English language. Some parts-of-speech are not covered due to the samples used by the British National Corpus. (note: percents less than one-hundredth of one percent have been omitted)
Parts of SpeechPercentUsage per
100 Million Words
Rank in English
Adjective (general or positive)99.3%14226,554
Noun (proper)0.7%1339,140
                    Total100.00%143N/A

Source: compiled by the editor from several corpora; see credits.

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Expressions: Submissive

Expressions using "submissive": submissive behavior submissive servant. Additional references.

Hyphenated Usage

Beginning with "submissive": submissive-looking.

Source: compiled by the editor from various references; see credits.

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Frequency of Internet Keywords: Submissive

The following statistics estimate the number of searches per day across the major English-language search engines as identified by various trade publications. Hyperlinks lead to commercial use of the expression at Amazon.com.
 
ExpressionFrequency
per Day
ExpressionFrequency
per Day

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416

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13

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179

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13

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104

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12

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90

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12

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84

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12

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82

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12

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70

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12

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43

submissive slut

12

submissive story

39

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11

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33

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11

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32

hubby submissive

11

submissive girl

30

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11

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29

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11

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26

submissive teen

10

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20

husband submissive training

10

submissive male story

17

submissive sissy

10

submissive husband story

15

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9

dominant wife submissive husband

15

poetry submissive

9

professional submissive

15

submissive position

9

submissive escort

15

submissive cross dresser

9
Source: compiled by the editor from various references; see credits.

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Modern Translation: Submissive

Language Translations for "submissive"; alternative meanings/domain in parentheses.

Albanian

  

i nënshtruar (deferred, passive, reduced, servile, slavish, subject, subordinate, under, yielding), i bindur (biddable, certain, cocksure, committed, compliant, convinced, dedicated, docile, ductile, manageable, obedient, sequacious, well-behaved, wieldy). (various references)

   

Arabic 

  

‏منقاد, ‏متذلل (abject, obsequious, servile, subservient), ‏مطيع (compliant, conformable, dutiful, manageable, obedient), ‏مذعن (acquiescent, compliant, obedient, pliable, yielding), ‏قانت (obedient), ‏خاضع (dependent, liable, subject, subordinate, subsidiary, tributary). (various references)

   

Bulgarian 

  

хрисим (amenable, pi, quiet, tractable), послушен (amenable, biddable, gentle, good, governable, obedient, tame, toward, tractable, unresisting), покорен (governable, humble, meek, obedient, unresisting). (various references)

   

Chinese 

  

服从 (Compliance, Compliant, Obedient, Obey, Obeyed, Obeying, Subjected, Subjecting). (various references)

   

Czech

  

poslušný (biddable, docile, dutiful, obedient), pokorný (humble, lowly, meek, tame), poddajný (amenable, compliant, docile, floppy, lithe, meek, pliable, pliant, supple, tame, yielding). (various references)

   

Farsi 

  

فروتن (Courteous, Daft, Humble, Low, Lowly, Meek, Modest, Slight, Unassuming, Unpretentious, Venal), مطیع (Able, Docile, Limber, Obedient, Submission), حلیم (Meek), سربزیر (Limber, Low), خاضع , خاشع . (various references)

   

Finnish

  

nöyrä (humble, lowly, meek, obedient), alistuvainen, alamainen (humble, national, subject, subservient). (various references)

   

French

  

soumis (subject), docile. (various references)

   

German

  

gehorsam (obedience, obedient, obediently, obeisance, obeisant, obeisantly, subdued, submission). (various references)

   

Greek 

  

πειθήνιοσ (amenable, docile), υπακούων, υποχωρών, υποτακτικόσ (subordinative, underling). (various references)

   

Hebrew 

  

מקבל מרות (amenable, disciplined, docile, obedient, tractable), כ יע, כ וע (docile, obedient), צית י (docile, obedient, tractable), כ ע (docile, servile, tame). (various references)

   

Hungarian

  

engedelmes (biddable, conformable, deferential, dutiful, manageable, mindful, obedient, observant, subservient, tame), alázatos (humble, lowly, meek, obsequious, servile, subservient). (various references)

   

Italian

  

sottomesso (obedient, pliable, subdued, subject, subservient), remissivo (compliant), deferente (deferent, deferential, dutiful). (various references)

   

Japanese Kanji 

  

" (docile, gentle, meek, obedient), "   (docile, gentle, meek, obedient), " (docile, gentle, meek, obedient). (various references)

   

Japanese Katakana 

  

じゅうじゅ" (docile, gentle, meek, obedient). (various references)

   

Korean 

  

복종하". (various references)

   

Manx

  

biallagh (docile, dutiful, obedient person, subject), beasagh (civil, civil as person, civilized, decorous, moral, quiet-mannered), arrymagh (respectful, reverend, solemn, venerable, worshipful). (various references)

   

Pig Latin

  

ubmissivesay.(various references)

   

Portuguese

  

submisso (acquiescent, amenable, biddable, broken, conformable, duteous, humble, obedient, yielding), resignado (long-suffering, resigned, uncomplaining, unmurmuring), obediente (conformable, duteous, dutiful, governable, obedient, obsequious, observant, yielding), dócil (amenable, biddable, docile, facile, gentle, kind, manageable, meek, obedient, tractable, yielding). (various references)

   

Romanian

  

supus (acquiescent, compliant, duteous, dutiful, dutifully, humble, meek, meekly, obedient, obediential, passive, subject, submissively, supple, tame, yielding), slugarnic (cringing, grovelling, hat in hand, obsequious, servile, slavish, slimy, supple, toad-eating), umil (humble, humbly, low, lowly, mean, meek, modest, poor, small), plecat (bent, gone, humble). (various references)

   

Russian 

  

покорный (acquiescent, humble, obedient, resigned, tame). (various references)

   

Serbo-Croatian

  

smeran (humble, meek, sober minded), pokoran (amenable, conformable, humble, malleable, manageable, meek, obedient, servile, subservient, tractable). (various references)

   

Spanish

  

sumiso (amenable, compliant, meek, obedient). (various references)

   

Swedish

  

undergiven (abject, meek, passive, resigned). (various references)

   

Turkish

  

uysal (accommodating, acquiescent, agreeable, amenable, Clement, compliant, demiss, docile, ductile, easy, easygoing, facile, flexible, flexile, gentle, good humoured, good tempered, good-humored, lamblike, malleable, manageable, meek, milky, peaceful, pliant, soft, squeezable, supple, sweet-tempered, tame, toward, tractable, yielding), itaatkâr (compliant, conformable, obedient, observant), boyun eğen, alçakgönüllü (decent, demiss, frugal, hat in hand, humble, low, lowly, meek, meek-spirited, modest, pudent, simple, simple minded, simple-hearted, unassuming, unpresuming, unpretending, unpretentious). (various references)

   

Ukrainian

  

сумирний (fearless, non-aggressive), покірний (acquiesced, acquiescent, benign, duteous, lamblike, meek, obedient, obediential, obeisant, prideless, resigned, tame). (various references)

   

Vietnamese 

  

ngoan ngoãn (conformable, docile, meek), dễ quy phục; dễ bảo, dễ phục tùng. (various references)

   

Welsh

  

ymostyngar. (various references)

Source: compiled by the editor from various translation references.

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Ancestral Language Translations: Submissive

LanguagePeriodTranslations
Latin500 BCE-Modern

oboediens, oboediente, oboedientes, oboedientia, oboedientibus, subdita, subditae, subditas, subditi, subditis, subdito, subditos, subditum, subditus, subditusque, supplex. (various references)

Source: compiled by the editor from various references.

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Derivations & Misspellings: Submissive

Derivations

Words beginning with "submissive": submissively, submissiveness, submissivenesses. (additional references)


Misspellings

"Submissive" is suggested in spellcheckers for the following: submersive, submisive, submissibe, submmisive. (additional references)

Source: compiled by the editor, based on several corpora (additional references).

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Rhyming with "Submissive"

# of Phoneme MatchesPronunciationWord(s) rhyming with "submissive" (pronounced submi"siv)
5-m i" s i vdismissive, missive, permissive.
4-i" s i vderisive.
3-s i vabrasive, abusive, adhesive, aggressive, allusive, apprehensive, aversive, coercive, cohesive, collusive, comprehensive, compulsive, conclusive, conducive, convulsive, corrosive, counteroffensive, decisive, defensive, depressive, discursive, dispersive, divisive, effusive, elusive, erosive, evasive, excessive, exclusive, expansive, expensive, explosive, expressive, extensive, hypertensive, illusive, impassive, impressive, impulsive, incisive, inclusive, inconclusive, indecisive, inexpensive, inoffensive, intrusive, invasive, massive, nonexclusive, nonresponsive, obsessive, obtrusive, offensive, oppressive, passive, pensive, persuasive, pervasive, possessive, progressive, recessive, reclusive, reflexive, regressive, repressive, repulsive, responsive, subversive, successive, unimpressive, unobtrusive, unresponsive.

Source: compiled by the editor (additional references); see credits.

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Anagrams: Submissive

Scrabble® Enable2K-Verified Anagrams

Words within the letters "b-e-i-i-m-s-s-s-u-v"

-2 letters: missives.

-3 letters: missies, missive, misuses, submiss.

-4 letters: busies, busses, ibises, imbues, isseis, issues, misses, missis, missus, misuse, musses, sebums, seisms.

-5 letters: bises, buses, imbue, issei, issue, ivies, mises, muses, sebum, seism, semis, sises, vibes, vises.

 Words containing the letters "b-e-i-i-m-s-s-s-u-v"
 

+2 letters: submissively.

 

+3 letters: subjectivisms.

 

+4 letters: submissiveness.

Source: compiled by the editor from various references; see credits.

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INDEX

1. Definition
2. Synonyms
3. Crosswords
4. Usage: Commercial
5. Images: Slideshow
6. Quotations: Fiction
7. Quotations: Non-fiction
8. Usage Frequency
9. Expressions
10. Expressions: Internet
11. Translations: Modern
12. Translations: Ancient
13. Derivations
14. Rhymes
15. Anagrams
16. Bibliography


  

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